I wondered a few times after that if he was right. I found myself going through all the old pictures of when the kids were brand new and wondered, but decided it meant nothing. I got a little too sentimental about putting away clothes Naomi had outgrown and wondered, but decided it probably wasn't any more than usual and that I was just over-thinking it. Then it happened. The clue that made me say, "Darn it! I AM
sick.
Now, onto the moment. There I was, searching through the archives of our lives (my external hard drive with all my photos on it) and I ran across a photo of myself in the very advanced stages of being pregnant with Lawson. Now, up until that moment, I'd have looked at that photo and had any number of these thoughts before quickly clicking to the next shot: "Wow. My butt was huge." or "SO glad I'm not pregnant right now." or just simply "not. cute." But this time, I stared at the giant round belly in the photograph and had a moment of longing and jealousy towards my former knocked-up self. And that is exactly what happened a few months before I found myself pregnant with Naomi. Hormones won.
Here it is. In all it's glory. Not even a nice pregnant picture. Nope! It's an acting crazy, looking strange and not cute in the car on the way to go camping with Haley photo. This is what confirmed my baby fever. I should be more embarrassed.
Now, let me put out this fire before it gets blazing and my phone starts ringing off the hook. First of all, this does not mean I'm on a mission to get pregnant right now. Not in the least. Logic is a poor, poor loser and right now logic is calling for a rematch! Logic is jumping up and down and pretty sure I've gone and lost it! Hormones are having a really good time messing with me! They've even gone and made my straight hair curly in the past couple months (!!!!). They are taking a woman who should be perfectly satisfied with her obnoxiously perfect set-up with a boy and a girl and making her want more. They are making her baby-hungry even as she breastfeeds her almost eight month old BABY. Yes, baby. They are making a woman who has to inject herself twice a day while she's pregnant want to go through the pharmacy drive through to get refills on the anti-coagulant. They are making a woman who endured 32 hours of hard, natural labor want to do it all over again.
Okay, so even creepily addressing the situation in the third person is not helping me to turn that nagging voice off. It's there. I'm working on finding a mute button. Wish me luck. And let's hope when I find it that it doesn't mute the logic instead!
Ha, ha, ha, its happening again. Yep, yep, yep, Kim will probably be pregnant soon. Probably to my dismay with another girl!
ReplyDeleteOh no!! I totally get this, though! Ha! Enjoy the ride. {wink}
ReplyDeleteThank you for your sweet comment on my blog!
Totally get this. We had a moment a few months ago when we thought we may be pregnant (turns out I wasn't, but there was a lot of evidence that I was..) and even though my -current- baby was only 3 months old at the time, we were really excited about the possibility of another baby. And when we knew for sure I wasn't pregnant, we were both disappointed.
ReplyDeleteCrazy!
Babies are addictive.
you all will know the timing.... or is may pass.... life with 3 is definitely busy!
ReplyDeleteYou sound like me a year before I had no.3. I remember looking really jeaously at some one feeding a new born thinking I want to do that. I always felt that my boy/girl two were too neat and tidy and the house was too quiet. Well I now have the chaos I wished for and (most of the time) it's perfect!
ReplyDeleteAnd don't let the 32 hour labour put you off. My no1 was about that (I chose to forget how long exactly!) - no.3 was an hour from being induced. Had a lovely lunch with my mum in town, popped into the birthing centre, had no.3 then home for tea with the three kids. A strange wonderful day, that I would repeat in a heartbeat. Go for it! xo
you CANNOT get pregnant again. Because every time you get pregnant i get pregnant a few weeks later and I CANNOT get pregnant right now! I'm begging youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu. my kids are way too big of a handful for me to to get pregnant again and I know i'm going to once you do. Turn the hormones off.
ReplyDeleteI laughed through your post today! It's funny how life has a crazy way about it. We go through those moments when something may seem so right but at the same time feel so wrong. Now that we are pregnant with baby number three I couldn't be happier. While we call this our "bonus" baby, it feels sooo right. You'll know what to do or maybe like us it will just happen. Either way it goes, your hormones and feelings are more than normal!!!
ReplyDeleteYou make feel not crazy for feeling this way. If you can feel this way with two, I can certainly feel this way with one. And I suspect I'll still feel this way with one more. Because when you have great kids, easy, cute, fun, you want to add to the party. Who wouldn't want to?
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